Touchy Feely

The question was asked as to why he is being so touchy/feely again. I guess I never did address that, huh. So here's the scoop.

Ever since my Uncle died my family has kind of been in a rut. I can't explain it, but well, when someone died unexpectedly, it happens. We went through it when my brother died and we're going through it again. Basically, no one wants to do anything fun because they're worried that my aunt isn't up to it.

Anyway he started bugging me a little while ago about a concert that was coming to a local university a month or so ago. I wasn't keen on going because a.) I don't like Him, b.) I'd seen the artist before and wasn't impressed and not a big fan of him, and c.) just didn't sound fun to me. Well then one day he brought it up again and for some reason I made the mistake of saying my family would love to go to that, it's too bad I couldn't get tickets for them. Next thing I knew I was on the phone with my Aunt asking if they'd be interested in going, and next thing I knew we had 15 tickets for this stupid show. This was after he surprised me with tickets to one of my favorite bands that is going to be here a week later and is letting me go without him. Ugh!

So anyway we have these 15 tickets and basically if I don't be the perfect little wifey that he wants me to be, he has a letter wrote up to send to my family telling them what a terrible person I am and detailing all the reasons he can't be with me anymore and all this other nonsense that will be sent, along with revoking the tickets, and just ruining my family life before I'm ready for him to.

No I haven't given in to what he really wants, and I won't either. He has told me he won't wait forever for that and has even tried putting a deadline on it, but with any luck it won't come to that.

I was told I have to do what's best for me and the girls and right now, this is it. My kids love their friends in the neighborhood and their school and their teachers, and so right now, taking them away from all of that isn't an option. Plus now they've been promised a trip to Disney in March and I can't let them down where that is concerned. I told him he has until June and I know if I've not liked him for this long, what's another 8 or 9 months, right??? I know, I'm a terrible person. **sigh**