The question was asked as to why he is being so touchy/feely again. I guess I never did address that, huh. So here's the scoop.
Ever since my Uncle died my family has kind of been in a rut. I can't explain it, but well, when someone died unexpectedly, it happens. We went through it when my brother died and we're going through it again. Basically, no one wants to do anything fun because they're worried that my aunt isn't up to it.
Anyway he started bugging me a little while ago about a concert that was coming to a local university a month or so ago. I wasn't keen on going because a.) I don't like Him, b.) I'd seen the artist before and wasn't impressed and not a big fan of him, and c.) just didn't sound fun to me. Well then one day he brought it up again and for some reason I made the mistake of saying my family would love to go to that, it's too bad I couldn't get tickets for them. Next thing I knew I was on the phone with my Aunt asking if they'd be interested in going, and next thing I knew we had 15 tickets for this stupid show. This was after he surprised me with tickets to one of my favorite bands that is going to be here a week later and is letting me go without him. Ugh!
So anyway we have these 15 tickets and basically if I don't be the perfect little wifey that he wants me to be, he has a letter wrote up to send to my family telling them what a terrible person I am and detailing all the reasons he can't be with me anymore and all this other nonsense that will be sent, along with revoking the tickets, and just ruining my family life before I'm ready for him to.
No I haven't given in to what he really wants, and I won't either. He has told me he won't wait forever for that and has even tried putting a deadline on it, but with any luck it won't come to that.
I was told I have to do what's best for me and the girls and right now, this is it. My kids love their friends in the neighborhood and their school and their teachers, and so right now, taking them away from all of that isn't an option. Plus now they've been promised a trip to Disney in March and I can't let them down where that is concerned. I told him he has until June and I know if I've not liked him for this long, what's another 8 or 9 months, right??? I know, I'm a terrible person. **sigh**
Tuesday, September 30, 2008
Last One...I'm Getting Bored LOL
WHO WAS YOUR LAST?
LAST PERSON YOU:
1 You hung out with?
Girls
2 Last person you text?
Steph
3 You were u in a car with?
My Kids
4 Went to the movies with?
Jes & The Girls
5 Went to the mall with?
The Girls
6 Went to dinner with?
My Mom & Gram
6 Person you talked on the phone with?
Steph
8 You messaged on MySpace?
Lisa
9 You talked to?
Steph
10 You miss?
Joshua
11 You Kissed
...
12 Cared About
...
13 Were angry with
Larry
14 Danced with
Tara
15 Went out with
Larry, Tim, Jes, Scott, Tara, Paul
16 Were on a motorcycle with
My uncle
T/F Only answer with True or False!
Q: Like someone?
true
Q: Kissed someone on your top friends?
true
Q: Been arrested?
false
Q: Been searched?
false
Q: Been suspended from school?
false
Q: Sat on a roof top?
true
Q: Been pushed into a pool with all your clothes on?
true
Q: Broken a bone?
true
Q: Have shaved your head?
false
Q: Played a prank on someone?
true
Q: Had/have a gym membership?
false
Q: Shot a gun?
false
Q: Donated Blood?
false
Q: Let your wall down for someone who doesn't deserve it?
True
Q: Had to deal with a man with more issues than you?
true
Q.Pretended to feel someway you didn't?
true
WOULD YOU RATHER
1 Eat or drink?
drink
2 Be serious or be funny?
Funny
3 Drink whole milk or skimmed milk?
Skim
4 Die in a fire or die getting shot?
shot
5 Love and be hurt, or never love at all?
Love and be hurt
6 Punch an asshole in their mouth, or walk away?
Punch
ANSWER TRUTHFULLY
1 Sun or moon?
Moon
2 Winter or fall?
fall
3 Left or right?
right
4 Black and white or colored?
Black & White
5 Where do you live?
Erie
6 Do you want to get married?
Nope
IN THE LAST WEEK HAVE YOU
1 Been hugged by someone?
yes
2 Been poked by someone?
no
3 Been let down by someone you trusted?
no
4 Missed someone?
yes
5 Regretted something?
always
6 Gotten a tattoo?
No
7 Won something?
no
8 Hit something?
No
9 Met someone good looking and got their number?
Nope
10 Lost someone you loved?
No
LAST PERSON YOU:
1 You hung out with?
Girls
2 Last person you text?
Steph
3 You were u in a car with?
My Kids
4 Went to the movies with?
Jes & The Girls
5 Went to the mall with?
The Girls
6 Went to dinner with?
My Mom & Gram
6 Person you talked on the phone with?
Steph
8 You messaged on MySpace?
Lisa
9 You talked to?
Steph
10 You miss?
Joshua
11 You Kissed
...
12 Cared About
...
13 Were angry with
Larry
14 Danced with
Tara
15 Went out with
Larry, Tim, Jes, Scott, Tara, Paul
16 Were on a motorcycle with
My uncle
T/F Only answer with True or False!
Q: Like someone?
true
Q: Kissed someone on your top friends?
true
Q: Been arrested?
false
Q: Been searched?
false
Q: Been suspended from school?
false
Q: Sat on a roof top?
true
Q: Been pushed into a pool with all your clothes on?
true
Q: Broken a bone?
true
Q: Have shaved your head?
false
Q: Played a prank on someone?
true
Q: Had/have a gym membership?
false
Q: Shot a gun?
false
Q: Donated Blood?
false
Q: Let your wall down for someone who doesn't deserve it?
True
Q: Had to deal with a man with more issues than you?
true
Q.Pretended to feel someway you didn't?
true
WOULD YOU RATHER
1 Eat or drink?
drink
2 Be serious or be funny?
Funny
3 Drink whole milk or skimmed milk?
Skim
4 Die in a fire or die getting shot?
shot
5 Love and be hurt, or never love at all?
Love and be hurt
6 Punch an asshole in their mouth, or walk away?
Punch
ANSWER TRUTHFULLY
1 Sun or moon?
Moon
2 Winter or fall?
fall
3 Left or right?
right
4 Black and white or colored?
Black & White
5 Where do you live?
Erie
6 Do you want to get married?
Nope
IN THE LAST WEEK HAVE YOU
1 Been hugged by someone?
yes
2 Been poked by someone?
no
3 Been let down by someone you trusted?
no
4 Missed someone?
yes
5 Regretted something?
always
6 Gotten a tattoo?
No
7 Won something?
no
8 Hit something?
No
9 Met someone good looking and got their number?
Nope
10 Lost someone you loved?
No
...
Can you take this without deleting any questions?
I only delete the ones I already answered
What's going on between you and the last person you kissed?
Do my kids count?
What was your worst mistake in your life?
Has to be telling my brother I hated him the night before he was killed
Would you get back with your last ex if they asked you?
They have asked me and I turned them down flat
What friend do you tell the most to?
Probably my one coworker
Name 3 thoughts you have at this exact moment?
1. My ex's response to my turning him down
2. Reliving the fight my brother and I had
3. What time is it
You're walking down the street with your love, where are you going?
Well, considering I'm dreaming, who knows
What's something you really want right now, be honest?
To go home and nap
Three feelings at the moment?
1. Worried
2. Tired
3. Sad
Last time you had your breath taken away?
Last Tuesday
Does anything hurt on your body?
No, and please don't jinx it
Who was the last person to disappoint you?
Either my husband or my grandmother
Who was the last person you had a deep conversation with?
Steph
Have you ever punched a hole in the wall?
Unfortunately I'm not strong enough to punch through concrete and I have the knuckles to prove it
Who did you copy this from?
Carol
When was the last time you saw them?
Never Have
How well do you know them?
Pretty well, actually
Wheres the weirdest place you've changed clothes?
Back of a van on a field trip
Who do you love?
My kids
What's the cd in your player?
One I burned from iTunes
Anything annoying you right now?
Not annoyed per se, just me
Who was the last person to make you cry?
Myself
Anybody you're looking forward to seeing soon?
I always look forward to seeing my Aunt Bev
Is there a friend particularly that you miss?
Lisa, Brea, Shannon
What will you be doing in a half hour?
Back at work
Anywhere you'd rather be right now?
At home sleeping
Are you going anywhere for the next summer?
Well, if we actually make it to Disney, then no. If we don't, then probably South Carolina
Do you have plans today?
Work isn't enough?
Are you waiting for anyone's call right now?
Nope I'm at lunch =)
Doing A Little Catch Up
1. You could cuddle with anyone right now, who would you pick?
Hmm....
2. Person you last sent a text to?
Steph
3. What's irritating you right now?
My husband asking stupid questions that I don't know the answer to...
4. Where was your default taken?
Home
5. How many kids do you want?
I can't have anymore, so I guess for now it's the 3 I have
7. Are you tanned?
I'm the whitest white girl you will ever meet...I glow in the dark
8. What were you up to at 11pm last night?
Sleeping
9. Plans for tomorrow?
Work, Hair Appointment, Bar, the rest is yet to be seen
10. How many hours did you sleep last night?
8 or 9...I was tired
11. Who last sent you a message on myspace?
Lisa
12. Did you hug anyone today?
No but I've thought about it
13. Are you in a good mood?
Surprisingly I am
14. Where did you last sleep other than your house?
Hotel in Ohio
15. Do you remember what you were like a year ago?
Barely
16. Do you love someone right now?
Yep
17. How do you feel about the person who texted you last?
She's my friend but sometimes I have to wonder about her
18. Do you use smiley faces on the computer a lot?
yep
19. Do you wear glasses?
When I have contact issues
20. Are you there for the friends?
Always
21. When’s the next time you will see the person you like?
I see them all the time
22. Do you get along with girls?
Not too many
23. Do you get 8 hours of sleep everyday?
I try
24. Are you a forgiving person?
Too Forgiving
25. How is life for you right now?
It's okay...
26. Do you believe what goes around comes around?
Yes, Karma is a bitch and in full swing for certain people right now
27. Who was the last person you ate with?
My Family
28. When was the last time you saw your dad?
Few weeks ago
29. What is your favorite thing to spend money on?
My girls & shoes
30. Do you have any bruises?
I always have bruises
31. What were you doing at noon yesterday?
Working
32. What was the last thing you did?
Ate lunch
33. As of today do you like anybody?
Sure
34. Does he/she know this?
I think he does
35. Do you drink more water or juice?
Water
36. Are you the same person as you were at the beginning of 2008?
No, many things have changed in my life this year
Hmm....
2. Person you last sent a text to?
Steph
3. What's irritating you right now?
My husband asking stupid questions that I don't know the answer to...
4. Where was your default taken?
Home
5. How many kids do you want?
I can't have anymore, so I guess for now it's the 3 I have
7. Are you tanned?
I'm the whitest white girl you will ever meet...I glow in the dark
8. What were you up to at 11pm last night?
Sleeping
9. Plans for tomorrow?
Work, Hair Appointment, Bar, the rest is yet to be seen
10. How many hours did you sleep last night?
8 or 9...I was tired
11. Who last sent you a message on myspace?
Lisa
12. Did you hug anyone today?
No but I've thought about it
13. Are you in a good mood?
Surprisingly I am
14. Where did you last sleep other than your house?
Hotel in Ohio
15. Do you remember what you were like a year ago?
Barely
16. Do you love someone right now?
Yep
17. How do you feel about the person who texted you last?
She's my friend but sometimes I have to wonder about her
18. Do you use smiley faces on the computer a lot?
yep
19. Do you wear glasses?
When I have contact issues
20. Are you there for the friends?
Always
21. When’s the next time you will see the person you like?
I see them all the time
22. Do you get along with girls?
Not too many
23. Do you get 8 hours of sleep everyday?
I try
24. Are you a forgiving person?
Too Forgiving
25. How is life for you right now?
It's okay...
26. Do you believe what goes around comes around?
Yes, Karma is a bitch and in full swing for certain people right now
27. Who was the last person you ate with?
My Family
28. When was the last time you saw your dad?
Few weeks ago
29. What is your favorite thing to spend money on?
My girls & shoes
30. Do you have any bruises?
I always have bruises
31. What were you doing at noon yesterday?
Working
32. What was the last thing you did?
Ate lunch
33. As of today do you like anybody?
Sure
34. Does he/she know this?
I think he does
35. Do you drink more water or juice?
Water
36. Are you the same person as you were at the beginning of 2008?
No, many things have changed in my life this year
Been A While
Do you have any voicemails on your cellphone?
I don't think I have any new ones
How many times a day do you shower?
Once, unless I end up all sweaty and gross and I have to shower again
When you wake up what's the first thing you do?
Force myself out of bed and take care of lunches & bookbags
Do you play video games?
Not really
What's the last thing you bought at the store?
Groceries
How many states have you lived in?
2
Are you a high school drop out?
Heck no, I even gots a college edumacashion
Left handed or right handed?
Righty
Look out the window, what do you see?
Tree branches
What is to your left?
My wall full of cheat sheets
What was the last thing that made you laugh?
Something a coworker said
Who do you think will be a better mom Nicole Richie Or Christina Aguilera?
Who cares they have nannies who raise their kids, I raise my own thanks
Do you read the newspaper?
Yep & I get paid to do it
Do you cook?
I do and am actually quite good at it!!!
How many pets do you have?
Two pooches
Are you close with your parents?
My Mom definitely...My dad, well, that's another story
How many best friends do you have?
One or Two
What are you doing tonight?
Cooking dinner, giving the kids a bath and putting laundry away
What time is it?
1:21 PM
Can you make a dollar in change right now?
I actually can...didn't deposit that Avon money yet.
Do you read gossip magazines?
People, but that's not really a gossip magazine
Do you like to sing or dance in the shower?
I used to in college, but not so much anymore
How do you like your eggs?
Over Easy
At McDonalds what do you usually order?
depends on what I'm hungry for
Are you a friendly person?
I am if I like you, I'm not one to socialize much if I don't
If you could change one thing about your life right now, what would it be?
I'd be on my own with my girlies
If you could go back in time, where would you go?
June 15, 1996 and I'd change everything!!!
Have you ever met a famous person?
One or Two
Do you look like anyone famous?
Not that I know of
Have you ever done drugs?
Way back in the day I may have inhaled
Have you ever woke up and didn't know who the person was sleeping next to you?
No
Do you have a criminal record?
Heck no
What really annoys you?
Oh the list I have
What are you listening to?
Commercials
What's your favorite tv-show?
Grey's Anatomy, Desperate Housewives
What's your favorite color?
Blue
Who do you want to become the next president?
I have no clue
Where you ever voted for prom queen/prom king?
Not even nominated
Do you play any insturments?
Organ
What's the date today?
9/30/08
What are you looking forward to?
Nothing at the moment
When was the last time you were in a swimming pool?
August
When your in the shower, what's the first thing you wash?
My arms
Do you wear makeup?
I'd scare people away if I didn't
Where is the strangest place you've slept?
Lakers Game
How many colors have you dyed your hair?
I lost count...
Do you howl on full moons?
I howl for other reasons :)
Have you ever been hit on by somebody 10 years older than you?
I love how I couldn't make up these questions if I tried....
Tuesday Rainy Tuesday
Had a pretty decent night last night =) The girls were well behaved, he had darts, spent the night catching up with friends…it was a good night.
Then he came home…I was in the bathroom getting ready for bed and I thought I heard him home. I came out of the bathroom, and he was hanging out in the girls’ room watching a movie with them **rolls eyes** He went in the bathroom to do his thing and I went to bed. I was so tired I was asleep by the time he was done. So what does he do? Wakes me up, of course. I could have killed him. Then it was a hands on night, so I got no sleep. I’m so sick of it. Right now I’m stuck until at least March so that the kids can go to Disney. I love how he uses the kids against me, but the last thing I want to do is disappoint them, so I let him **sigh**
Not too much else is going on. A good friend of mine invited me to a party at her place in a couple weeks, and I’m looking forward to that. It’s been a long time since I’ve had a chance to hang out with her and I’m hoping to get to see her new baby, as well. October is actually shaping up to be a pretty busy month. I have my friends party on the 10th, a huge family outing on the the 11th, a concert on the 18th and my anniversary is mixed in there somewhere too. He’s already made plans for the day that don’t include me, so that’s a load off my shoulder. Oh and he’s also going out of town overnight for work…WHOO FREAKING HOO!!!! (Can ya tell I’m excited about that day?) I also have a couple days off of work, which the girlies are excited about, too….It may turn out to be a decent month…but I won’t hold my breath on that!!!
Then he came home…I was in the bathroom getting ready for bed and I thought I heard him home. I came out of the bathroom, and he was hanging out in the girls’ room watching a movie with them **rolls eyes** He went in the bathroom to do his thing and I went to bed. I was so tired I was asleep by the time he was done. So what does he do? Wakes me up, of course. I could have killed him. Then it was a hands on night, so I got no sleep. I’m so sick of it. Right now I’m stuck until at least March so that the kids can go to Disney. I love how he uses the kids against me, but the last thing I want to do is disappoint them, so I let him **sigh**
Not too much else is going on. A good friend of mine invited me to a party at her place in a couple weeks, and I’m looking forward to that. It’s been a long time since I’ve had a chance to hang out with her and I’m hoping to get to see her new baby, as well. October is actually shaping up to be a pretty busy month. I have my friends party on the 10th, a huge family outing on the the 11th, a concert on the 18th and my anniversary is mixed in there somewhere too. He’s already made plans for the day that don’t include me, so that’s a load off my shoulder. Oh and he’s also going out of town overnight for work…WHOO FREAKING HOO!!!! (Can ya tell I’m excited about that day?) I also have a couple days off of work, which the girlies are excited about, too….It may turn out to be a decent month…but I won’t hold my breath on that!!!
Monday, September 29, 2008
My Weekend
This weekend was just as I predicted…excessively long.
Friday it started as soon as I walked in the door. We were at each other’s throat and I guess it was my fault, I don’t know. I didn’t want to be there and I took it out on him. I don’t know I just don’t know what to do anymore or how to be. Saturday was more of the same. I took the girls to dance and then all of us went to meet my mom and my grandma at Fridays for lunch. Then we attempted to take the diva to get sneakers. She lived up to her name there, that’s for sure. We were there for over an hour just trying to find shoes for one child. God Bless the sales girl who waited on us because she went over and beyond for us and did it all with a smile on her face. I really hope she gets commission because she so deserves it!!! After that I had other places I wanted to go to get things taken care of but it was already almost time for the Borders party I told them I’d take them to. We were walking in and the Diva starts having a meltdown about her new shoes. I told him to take the other two in and I’d meet them in there. We get in there and the event beforehand wasn’t over so the twinners wanted to go and look at Webkinz, so I took them over…they didn’t have enough money for new ones, so we had a meltdown in the store. I was so frustrated with him, the shoe thing, and just life in general, that I told them all we were just going to go home and we did. The girls are still mad at me, but I just couldn’t do it. I went home and went to bed and tried to have a nice night after that, but failed miserably. He kept hanging on me and touching me and everytime I told him to stop he just got pissed off.
Yesterday was more of the same only my family was thrown in the mix. We went to my Mom’s and she started talking about the Disney trip. My heart just isn’t in it. He kept trying to talk about it even after we left my Mom’s and I basically said it’s not going to happen. He wasn’t real pleased, but I told him I was just being realistic. Then we were at my grams and I was trying to show off the girls’ dance show and she saw maybe two seconds and then went to pay attention to my cousins. I don’t know why I’m surprised. She’s always liked her step-grandchildren better. She’s pulled this crap since the day my first cousin was born, and she’s reminded me of what a screw up I am since the day I was born. I just wish I would have slept through all of yesterday. I could have gone without the day ever happening. Last night was more of the same of Saturday. Him touching me and making me want to disappear and getting pissed off when I told him to knock it off.
All weekend all I wanted to do was have it be Monday and be back at work, but now that I'm here, I'm really not feeling any better. Things are going wrong with accounts and my work schedule and it's just a Monday and I don't need a Monday right now...I'm sick of Mondays.
Friday it started as soon as I walked in the door. We were at each other’s throat and I guess it was my fault, I don’t know. I didn’t want to be there and I took it out on him. I don’t know I just don’t know what to do anymore or how to be. Saturday was more of the same. I took the girls to dance and then all of us went to meet my mom and my grandma at Fridays for lunch. Then we attempted to take the diva to get sneakers. She lived up to her name there, that’s for sure. We were there for over an hour just trying to find shoes for one child. God Bless the sales girl who waited on us because she went over and beyond for us and did it all with a smile on her face. I really hope she gets commission because she so deserves it!!! After that I had other places I wanted to go to get things taken care of but it was already almost time for the Borders party I told them I’d take them to. We were walking in and the Diva starts having a meltdown about her new shoes. I told him to take the other two in and I’d meet them in there. We get in there and the event beforehand wasn’t over so the twinners wanted to go and look at Webkinz, so I took them over…they didn’t have enough money for new ones, so we had a meltdown in the store. I was so frustrated with him, the shoe thing, and just life in general, that I told them all we were just going to go home and we did. The girls are still mad at me, but I just couldn’t do it. I went home and went to bed and tried to have a nice night after that, but failed miserably. He kept hanging on me and touching me and everytime I told him to stop he just got pissed off.
Yesterday was more of the same only my family was thrown in the mix. We went to my Mom’s and she started talking about the Disney trip. My heart just isn’t in it. He kept trying to talk about it even after we left my Mom’s and I basically said it’s not going to happen. He wasn’t real pleased, but I told him I was just being realistic. Then we were at my grams and I was trying to show off the girls’ dance show and she saw maybe two seconds and then went to pay attention to my cousins. I don’t know why I’m surprised. She’s always liked her step-grandchildren better. She’s pulled this crap since the day my first cousin was born, and she’s reminded me of what a screw up I am since the day I was born. I just wish I would have slept through all of yesterday. I could have gone without the day ever happening. Last night was more of the same of Saturday. Him touching me and making me want to disappear and getting pissed off when I told him to knock it off.
All weekend all I wanted to do was have it be Monday and be back at work, but now that I'm here, I'm really not feeling any better. Things are going wrong with accounts and my work schedule and it's just a Monday and I don't need a Monday right now...I'm sick of Mondays.
Friday, September 26, 2008
Back For More
So I’m back. We’ll see how long this lasts before my husband figures out it’s back and I have to take it down again, but for now I’m back, so yeah!!!! LOL
Can I just tell you how much I hate Fridays? Not only is it the most hectic day of the week at work (for the most part), but it also means that I’m looking at three long, exhausting, excruciatingly painful days at home. I barely make it through a night at home let alone a whole weekend. Best part is, he’s already getting on my nerves and I’m not even home yet. I asked him if he could start a pizza when he gets home since my Diva child has dance tonight…that gets him going on things. Seriously? I asked you to do one little thing and you’re going to run with it…oh yea, going to be a fun weekend.
Speaking of my diva, she needs new sneakers. I wish she would have told me this two or three weeks ago when I went through hell trying to buy her sneakers for dance. Then I could have gotten them both in one trip. No she waits until now to tell me that her gym sneakers hurt and has the blisters to prove it…sigh. (Sidenote..Just got an email from my husband…**rolls eyes**) this is going to be fun. Last time I had to get her sneakers it was a night filled with drama. I’m sure this time will be worse, as her father informed her the only place she can get them is Penneys because he has coupons (read: he has a credit card). I guarantee I’ll end up writing a rubber check to cover her sneakers because she won’t be able to find any that she likes at Penneys.
That brings me to my breaking news I found out last night…he’s not paying the mortgage. Well I think he’s paying it, but definitely not on time. I knew the mortgage company had called earlier in the week but I figured he was trying to see about lowering our payment or something again. Well last night he was sitting on the couch with his bills spread out (and I was wondering why he didn’t do this last Thursday since he got paid last Friday) and I saw the mortgage payment. I made a comment about them being on the answering machine and making sure he got the message. He says, “Oh, they probably just want paid.” Record scratch, everything stops…”I’m sorry, what?” “I haven’t had a chance to pay them yet this month.” Hello!!! It’s 9/25…it was due 9/1! I know I was bad with our bills, but I never, and I repeat never was late on a credit bill and definitely not the mortgage. I could have killed him!
Then there is work. Don’t get me wrong, I love my job and the people I work with (for the most part), but today has about pushed me over the edge. I had a special section I was working on for Saturday and I saw the printed copy of it today. My customers are going to be so unhappy. I warned the one about their placement and I’ve already been warned that the owner is going to go through the roof…lovely. We have another special recruitment section coming out on Sunday. I know our ad builders are busy and everything, but could you take more than 30 seconds to put an ad together? I sold a half page and it looks like shit. I am embarrassed to even send it to the client.
It has definitely been one of those days. Once I get done crying on the way home, I think I’ll make myself a drink. Oh wait, diva has dance…guess I’ll have to take a rain check on that Bay breeze =(
Can I just tell you how much I hate Fridays? Not only is it the most hectic day of the week at work (for the most part), but it also means that I’m looking at three long, exhausting, excruciatingly painful days at home. I barely make it through a night at home let alone a whole weekend. Best part is, he’s already getting on my nerves and I’m not even home yet. I asked him if he could start a pizza when he gets home since my Diva child has dance tonight…that gets him going on things. Seriously? I asked you to do one little thing and you’re going to run with it…oh yea, going to be a fun weekend.
Speaking of my diva, she needs new sneakers. I wish she would have told me this two or three weeks ago when I went through hell trying to buy her sneakers for dance. Then I could have gotten them both in one trip. No she waits until now to tell me that her gym sneakers hurt and has the blisters to prove it…sigh. (Sidenote..Just got an email from my husband…**rolls eyes**) this is going to be fun. Last time I had to get her sneakers it was a night filled with drama. I’m sure this time will be worse, as her father informed her the only place she can get them is Penneys because he has coupons (read: he has a credit card). I guarantee I’ll end up writing a rubber check to cover her sneakers because she won’t be able to find any that she likes at Penneys.
That brings me to my breaking news I found out last night…he’s not paying the mortgage. Well I think he’s paying it, but definitely not on time. I knew the mortgage company had called earlier in the week but I figured he was trying to see about lowering our payment or something again. Well last night he was sitting on the couch with his bills spread out (and I was wondering why he didn’t do this last Thursday since he got paid last Friday) and I saw the mortgage payment. I made a comment about them being on the answering machine and making sure he got the message. He says, “Oh, they probably just want paid.” Record scratch, everything stops…”I’m sorry, what?” “I haven’t had a chance to pay them yet this month.” Hello!!! It’s 9/25…it was due 9/1! I know I was bad with our bills, but I never, and I repeat never was late on a credit bill and definitely not the mortgage. I could have killed him!
Then there is work. Don’t get me wrong, I love my job and the people I work with (for the most part), but today has about pushed me over the edge. I had a special section I was working on for Saturday and I saw the printed copy of it today. My customers are going to be so unhappy. I warned the one about their placement and I’ve already been warned that the owner is going to go through the roof…lovely. We have another special recruitment section coming out on Sunday. I know our ad builders are busy and everything, but could you take more than 30 seconds to put an ad together? I sold a half page and it looks like shit. I am embarrassed to even send it to the client.
It has definitely been one of those days. Once I get done crying on the way home, I think I’ll make myself a drink. Oh wait, diva has dance…guess I’ll have to take a rain check on that Bay breeze =(
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